Planning prepaid funerals can be a difficult task, and is one which few are ever prepared for. In addition to coping with the grief of losing a loved one, suddenly finding yourself responsible for making funeral arrangements can be overwhelming. For most people, planning a funeral is something they have never experienced before, and in many cases have never even considered.

The Funeral Director

Finding a funeral director is typically the first step in making funeral arrangements. The funeral director will walk you through every step of planning the funeral, and will be responsible for conducting the funeral services.

Things toConsider inMaking Funeral Arrangements

• Has the deceased already made funeral plans? Things like the headstone, the burial plot, and the service may have already been arranged prior to their passing.

• Should the deceased be buried or cremated? This decision may be determined in part by religious rites, or the wishes of the deceased, if known.

• If the body is to be buried, does the family own a burial plot, and if not, where would you like the plot to be?

• Will there be multiple services, for example, a memorial at a church or synagogue, followed by a separate service at the cemetery?

• What type of service will be held? The specifics of the service may also be influenced by religious rites or the wishes of the deceased.

• Will the service require transportation, for family and friends, to and from the gravesite?

Choosing theFinal Resting Place

Things to consider, that would typically fall under this category, unless prior arrangements had already been made, would include selecting and engraving a headstone for the grave, or an urn for the ashes, and choosing a cemetery. The cost of a cemetery plot or cremation service can vary widely between cemeteries and crematoria. There are also many types of coffins, caskets, and urns available, in different materials, construction qualities, and styles, each with their own price tag. The funeral director will be able to advise you on which is most appropriate for your budget and any religious rites that may apply.

Cost Considerations

There are many costs to take into consideration when arranging a funeral and these costs can add up quickly. It is important to know your budget, and what costs you will face, beforehand. In addition to the primary costs of a funeral service, such as, the coffin and burial plot, there are also a number of options that may add to the funeral expenses. Things like publishing a notice in the local newspaper, commissioning a memorial presentation, or catering the service should all be taken into account when planning the funeral. Again, the funeral director will be able to help with these matters.

Being responsible for a funeral is never a position anyone wants to find himself or herself in, but with a little knowledge and the right support, the burden can be at least somewhat alleviated.